Dear Attorneys,
My ex and I cannot communicate at all. Every little thing turns into a big explosion. I finally gave up and stopped asking him to weigh in on things pertaining to our son. However, our prior Court Order indicates that we have joint legal custody. I’ve made some unilateral decisions, and now he is bringing me to court with a contempt motion. What do I do?
Sincerely,
Unilateral Ursula
Dear Ursula,
Lack of communication can be the demise of many relationships, and in your case, it sounds as though it is preventing you and your ex from co-parenting appropriately. However, if you have joint legal custody, you simply cannot make unilateral decisions. If you have found that you are trying to work with your ex and he is being resistant, you should consider filing a motion to modify the joint legal custody to sole legal custody, or at least to have final decision-making authority. That probably sounds a lot more simple than it is, since obtaining sole legal custody is difficult. You should consult with an attorney to see what your options are. You may also want to consider an objection to his motion to modify, and maybe even your own Post-judgement motion for order so that the two of you can take co-parenting classes.
Remember, you don’t have to navigate this challenging situation alone. Seek support from experienced professionals who can guide you through the legal process and help you make informed decisions. Wolf & Shore Law Group is here to help you make your family law matters easier, not harder. We are realistic and direct with our clients. We encourage potential clients to seek out a firm where they will feel comfortable and confident. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
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