Dear Attorneys,
My divorce is pending, and I’m still living with my ex-husband. But he’s just a jerk. I don’t agree with anything he is doing. He speaks negatively to me, and the kids, and is just unpleased to be around. However, my lawyer says that he is not technically doing anything wrong, so I can’t file a motion. Why does he get to be a jerk and the court doesn’t care?
Sincerely,
Fed Up Frannie
Dear Frannie,
I’m sorry that your soon-to-be-ex-husband is being a “jerk” to you. Unfortunately, the divorce process can be stressful and frustrating and often brings out the worst in people. On top of that, if you did not already have concerns with his attitude/behavior, you may not be in the middle of a divorce right now, so that concept often exacerbates your feelings. In this situation, unless he is disparaging you to the children, your lawyer is probably right. The court will not get involved just because someone is not acting appropriately. You would only have the option of a contempt remedy if he was actually violating an underlying court order. While you may want to consider filing a motion for exclusive use of your residence, ultimately, you will need to show evidence surrounding a much better reason as to why he should no longer be allowed to reside with you.
Remember, you don’t have to navigate this challenging situation alone. Seek support from experienced professionals who can guide you through the legal process and help you make informed decisions. Wolf & Shore Law Group is here to help you make your family law matters easier, not harder. We are realistic and direct with our clients. We encourage potential clients to seek out a firm where they will feel comfortable and confident. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
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