Dear Attorneys,
I’m putting together a Galentine’s party for my friends. I decided to return some of the supplies that I bought, so I was checking the refund on my credit card. While I was looking at the recent charges, I saw a $200 charge to a local flower shop. I could tell that it was on my husband’s card, not mine. I called the florist to “confirm the details of my order.” In doing so, I found out that the flowers are being delivered tomorrow, on Valentine’s Day, to a woman I have never heard of. I’m livid. We didn’t have a great marriage before this, and now I feel truly betrayed. What are the first steps I should take if I am ready to file for divorce?
Sincerely,
Betrayed Becky
Dear Becky,
I’m sorry to hear that, and I’m sure that was a rude awakening. I wish I could say it was the first time we have heard this problem, but unfortunately, many people find out about their partners cheating in similar manners on or around Valentine’s Day.
If you are ready to file for divorce, the first thing you should do is consult with a few attorneys. Many people ask their friends or family for recommendations. That seems to be the most trusted route to take. If you don’t know anyone who has recently used a family law attorney, you can also check with the local bar association, or simply do some research on google. You should go into each consultation open-minded, and ultimately, probably seek to retain the attorney with whom you felt the best rapport. You will probably learn different things from each attorney, and it will be a good start to “getting your ducks in a row” as you get ready to file.
Wolf & Shore Law Group is here to help you make your family law matters easier, not harder. We are realistic and direct with our clients. We encourage potential clients to seek out a firm where they will feel comfortable and confident. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
*The situations represented in our Dear Attorneys column are entirely fictional and any resemblance to a specific case is unintentional. We cannot, and will not, offer legal advice to anyone who is not a client. However, if you do have questions or concerns, you should contact an attorney at your convenience.
