Dear Attorneys,
What if my wife won’t let me see my kids while our divorce is pending?
– Frustrated Father
Dear Frustrated,
We hear this question a lot, and first things first—you’re not alone. Many parents find themselves in this situation, and it can feel overwhelming. The important thing to know is that one parent doesn’t get to unilaterally decide if the other parent gets to see the children (unless a Court Order says otherwise).
If you don’t yet have a custody or parenting plan in place, that’s usually the first step. A court-approved plan gives both parents clear rights and responsibilities, and—maybe most importantly—it helps create consistency for the kids. If you already do have a parenting plan or Court Order, and your wife isn’t following it, you have the option to file a motion for contempt so that the Court can enforce the underlying order.
Courts in Connecticut make custody decisions based on what’s in the best interest of the children, and that usually means maintaining strong relationships with both parents.
Having an experienced family law attorney in your corner can make a big difference. We can help you navigate your options and put a plan in place that protects your relationship with your children. After all, you can’t always avoid conflict—but you can make sure you come out on the other side of it stronger.
At Wolf & Shore Law Group, we offer confidential consultations and help clients just like you navigate this process every day. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
*The situations represented in our Dear Attorneys column are entirely fictional and any resemblance to a specific case is unintentional. We cannot, and will not, offer legal advice to anyone who is not a client. However, if you do have questions or concerns, you should contact an attorney at your convenience.
