Co-parenting is often encouraged as the best approach for divorced or separated parents. But what happens when co-parenting just doesn’t work anymore?
At Wolf & Shore Law Group, we regularly hear from parents who say:
“We tried to co-parent, but communication has broken down and it’s hurting the kids.”
🚩 Common Signs Co-Parenting Isn’t Working:
- Constant disagreements over parenting time or decision-making
- One parent refusing to follow the court order
- Inability to agree on medical, educational, or extracurricular decisions
- A parent using the child as a messenger or manipulator
- Increasing tension or anxiety for the children
⚖️ What Can You Do?
If co-parenting has become high-conflict, you have legal options to protect both your parental rights and your child’s best interests:
1. File for a Modification
If the current custody or parenting plan is no longer working, you may be able to request a post-judgment modification with the court. This could involve changes to the parenting schedule, decision-making authority, or communication protocols.
2. Request a Guardian ad Litem or AMC
In contentious cases, the court may appoint a Guardian ad Litem (GAL) or Attorney for the Minor Child (AMC) to investigate and make recommendations about what is in the child’s best interest.
3. Seek Court-Ordered Communication Tools
You can ask the court to order the use of monitored communication tools (like OurFamilyWizard or AppClose) to reduce hostility and improve accountability.
4. Consider Sole Legal Custody (When Justified)
If one parent is truly uncooperative or undermining the child’s well-being, the court may consider granting sole legal custody, or even just final decision making authority,to the other parent—though this is not common and requires clear evidence.
Bottom line? Co-parenting isn’t always feasible. And if the situation is deteriorating, don’t wait. Your child’s emotional and physical well-being could be at stake.
At Wolf & Shore Law Group, we understand that every family is different. We’re here to help you determine the best next step—and advocate for what’s right for you and your children. Our team is here to help you navigate the legal process with confidence, ensuring you stay focused on what truly matters—your family. Ever Argue with a Woman? Contact us at 203.745.3151 or info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
