Dear Attorneys,
What if my husband controls all the money and I want a divorce? I feel financially trapped, and don’t know what my options are.
Sincerely,
Feeling Stuck
Dear Feeling Stuck,
You’re not alone in feeling this way—many people find themselves in financially imbalanced relationships and fear they have no way out. But here’s the good news: Connecticut laws surrounding divorces provide protections for individuals in your situation.
If your husband controls the finances, that doesn’t mean you’re powerless. First, it’s important to understand that Connecticut is an equitable distribution state, which means that marital assets are divided fairly—not necessarily equally—in a divorce. Even if accounts, property, or other assets are in your spouse’s name, they may still be considered marital property if acquired during the marriage. Additionally, if you do not have access to funds to retain an attorney, you can ask the court for pendente lite (temporary) relief, which could include a request for temporary alimony or contribution toward legal fees. Courts recognize that one party often has more financial control and may order the other party to provide financial support throughout the divorce process. You may also be eligible for temporary orders regarding use of marital funds, access to joint accounts, or exclusive possession of the marital home depending on your circumstances.
Don’t let fear of finances stop you from taking steps to protect yourself and your future.
The most important step you can take now is to consult with an experienced family law attorney who can help you understand your rights and develop a plan. At Wolf & Shore Law Group, we offer confidential consultations and help clients just like you navigate this process every day.
You deserve to feel financially safe and supported—even in the middle of a divorce. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
*The situations represented in our Dear Attorneys column are entirely fictional and any resemblance to a specific case is unintentional. We cannot, and will not, offer legal advice to anyone who is not a client. However, if you do have questions or concerns, you should contact an attorney at your convenience.
