Dear Attorneys,
My ex was ordered to pay child support in our final divorce agreement, but he recently just stopped. I’ve tried asking nicely, but he ignores me. What are my options?
Sincerely,
Frustrated and Fed Up
Dear Frustrated,
You’re not alone. This happens more often than you’d think. When one parent stops paying child support, it can create a ripple effect that impacts not only your household budget, but also your child’s stability. The good news? You do have options.
First, child support orders are legally binding, not suggestions. If your ex is not making the required payments, you can file a Post-Judgment Motion for Contempt with the court. That motion asks a judge to determine whether your ex has “willfully” failed to comply with a clear and unambiguous Court Order. If so, the court may order remedies such as wage garnishment, arrearage payment plans, or even sanctions. In some cases, the court can also require the delinquent parent to pay attorney’s fees or interest on overdue support.
If the arrearage is significant, the State of Connecticut’s Support Enforcement Services (SES) can also help. They have tools to withhold income directly, intercept tax refunds, suspend driver’s or professional licenses, or place liens on property to recover what’s owed. Sometimes, just getting SES involved is enough to prompt action.
We know this situation can be stressful; after all, you’re trying to provide for your child while managing the frustration of someone not following through. Remember, you shouldn’t have to carry that burden alone. The system is designed to hold people accountable and make sure your child gets the support they deserve.
If you’re unsure where to start or need help filing a motion, our office can walk you through the process and help you understand your rights and options. We handle cases like this often and know how to get things moving in the right direction. We’re here to help you protect what matters most. Because when it comes to your kids, support isn’t optional. At Wolf & Shore Law Group, we offer confidential consultations and help clients just like you navigate this process every day. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
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