Dear Attorneys,
My ex-girlfriend recently had our child. She doesn’t want me to see him. However, I want to be a part of his life. I consulted with an attorney and they told me that I can file a custody application and request visitation. However, it sounds like I would also be responsible for child support. I don’t think that I should have to contribute financially when she told me she doesn’t even want me in their lives. Am I wrong?
Sincerely,
Cheapo Charlie
Dear Charlie,
While hearing that your ex does not want you in your son’s life is frustrating, you may want to take a step back and look at the full picture. If you want to truly be a part of your son’s life, then that means being there for him in many ways. You can physically be there for him by exercising parenting time, you can be there for him emotionally as you help him to grow, and to mentor him, but part of being a parent is also being financially responsible for your child as well. So yes, if you file a custody application, then it is very likely that your ex will request child support. If she has primary physical custody, then you will likely be ordered to contribute financially.
Remember, you don’t have to navigate this challenging situation alone. Seek support from experienced professionals who can guide you through the legal process and help you make informed decisions. Wolf & Shore Law Group is here to help you make your family law matters easier, not harder. We are realistic and direct with our clients. We encourage potential clients to seek out a firm where they will feel comfortable and confident. Ever argue with a woman? Let Wolf & Shore Law Group go to work for you. Call us at 203.745.3151 or email us at info@wolfandshorelaw.com.
Very Truly Yours,
Wolf & Shore Law Group
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